if you know me in real life:
i’d really appreciate it if you told me before reading this. just as a courtesy. or even after! but i’d appreciate it if you’d say if you’ve read or are intending to read this, is my point.
i would also appreciate it if you’d respect my wishes if i asked you not to read it. i probably won’t, but either way what you read here is at your own risk, really.
i’m gonna talk about what i’m gonna talk about. it might be my mental health. (on this note: i don’t really filter on here — i edit so as not to trigger anyone who could be reading, but that’s about it. i need a place to vent disordered processes, sometimes. if you read something on here that seriously concerns you, please either ask me (or my partner) directly, i.e., “i read on your blog that you said x and you were feeling sort of y, is there anything i can do to help?” instead of just asking probing questions and sort of hovering because yall probably know i hate that.) it could be politics, it could be sex. it could be sexual politics! it could also be about my favorite kind of cheese or what i ate for breakfast. it could be about you! if it’s abut you don’t take it personally. i’m probably just venting it on here so i don’t vent it at you later. it’s probably better for both of us this way.
so, basically: please at least tell me if you’re reading this and you know me irl, and if you see something here that concerns you please ask me directly. don’t take stuff you see here personally. even if you are reading, i don’t intend to stop talking about whatever i want to talk about, so keep that in mind, please. i am not liable if you learn something about me you didn’t want to know, since i did warn you and all.
